27. Authority Issues

January 13, 2011

When my Dad died, and it was no longer possible to keep pestering him about what happened to me growing up, I started pestering my Mom. As a young person I was always a little afraid of her; as an adult I was in the habit of trying to please. Now I wanted to talk [...]

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26. Dream Death

December 9, 2010

For as long as I can remember, at least thirty years, my father liked to say that his dream death would be one in which he had a massive coronary playing tennis, and this is exactly what happened. He was playing doubles, and in the midst of serving collapsed on the court. Four ICU nurses [...]

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25. Dorothy was the Divorce Plaintiff

December 6, 2010

My grandmother, Dorothy Marie Crocker, was the plaintiff in her 1935 divorce from Jack J. Carnall. The divorce papers are posted below. There is no mention of the first marriage in 1930, only of the second marriage in 1933. The Genlighten genealogist who helped with the divorce search couldn’t find a divorce between the two [...]

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24. A Good Looking Man

November 7, 2010

I did stop at the local FHC center yesterday to inquire about obtaining a delayed Cook County birth record for my father, but the internet connection was down. Two friendly volunteers suggested I look up the LDS database myself, then stop back at the center to order microfiche. So I did some searching at home, [...]

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23. My Dad’s SS-5 Arrived!

November 4, 2010

My Dad’s SS-5 — Application for Social Security Account Number — arrived today! It’s strange to see a document in his handwriting that he filled in at age 15 on November 7, 1946. You probably can’t read the writing but he lists his given name at birth as John Jeff Carnell Jr., and his father [...]

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22. Total Business Makeover!

October 9, 2010

Dear Readers, Thank you so much for bearing with me as I sort out the-meaning-of-life and this whacky blog. This is a long post because, well, it explains everything! First, The Adventures of Gray Kitty series has a new home here. I wish it were possible to play a game I would call “And Then [...]

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21. Breakfast on the Rocks

October 7, 2010

During my lengthy Summer visits to grandmother Dorothy’s home in Hersher, Illinois about 17 miles from the nearest large town of Kankakee, I got used to the odd but peaceful structure of life with grandmother, my stepgrandfather Jamie and my father’s maternal great aunt Lillie Testie in their two-story rented farm house. The house was [...]

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20. Aunt Lilly Tieste

October 3, 2010

From three to about ten years of age I spent several weeks of most summers visiting my grandmother Dorothy Marie Crocker in Kankakee, Illinois, where she lived in a sprawling farm house miles from downtown Kankakee, with her husband Dr. James A Carter, DDS,  and her Aunt Lilly Tieste, the rightmost woman in the descending [...]

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19. Dorothy Marie Crocker

September 26, 2010

  Jack J Carnall, the probable father of my father does not seem to be a nasty character after further genealogical digging and after recollecting the sadness in his voice when my father spoke of his real father. Now I think the nasty one is perhaps the Tiner fellow Grandmother Dorothy met at the time [...]

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18. Leaving Texas

September 18, 2010

One of the many things I love about Martin is hearing the stories of his own family of origin. In talking together about my own family last week and using the ancestry.com site to research my father (more on that later) we couldn’t resist looking up his family tree and discovered some cool things Martin [...]

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